How to Get Your Husband To Do What you Want him to Do.

Monday, January 12, 2009.

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Donna

For the past two months I’ve been asking my husband to put up the curtains in our daughter’s room.  Somehow, he was avoiding the task. 

Until I came across a quote from Ann Bancroft.

Ms. Bancroft said, “[t]he best way to get most husbands to do something is to suggest that perhaps they’re too old to do it.”

For a second I wonder if my husband would fit the “most husbands” category.  I was up for the challenge to find that out.  So, yesterday, while we were in the living room watching TV, I snuggled my Husband and softly said:

“Baby, I’ve been thinking, maybe I should contact a handyman to take care of the curtains.  You know, you are not 20 years old anymore and I would not like you to get hurt. What do you think?”

My Husband did not respond.

Later that afternoon, problem solved—curtains are up!

Thank you, Ms. Bancroft.

Comments

I’ve tried the same thing with my husband and it does work.  I think this is a men thing—they don’t like being challenged.

Posted by Carmen. January 12, 2009 at 8:26 pm.

Sounds like Ms. Bancroft gave out some good advice. I have been trying to get my husband to paint our daughter’s room, I am wondering if this will do the trick.

Posted by Aimee. January 13, 2009 at 1:51 am.

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