Donna

Sadly, secretaries do get laid off too.  The economy is really bad and it is not cool to be laid off at this time.  But, if you are laid off, complaining or doing nothing about it will not help.  So, what can you do if you have been laid off?  Here are my recommendations:
 
1.  It is okay to be upset.  GS Rule #1: A true GS feels free to vent and blow of steam- in a civilized manner.  Anger, sadness, shock, and depression, are all symptoms associated with a lay off.  This is when a Secretary Screwed Up drink comes in handy. 
 
2.  Be happy.  GS Rule #2: A true GS doesn’t hold any grudges.  It does not matter that you think the lay off was unfair.  Even if it was unfair, you should not spend your time holding any grudges.  Remember that your former colleagues may help you find your next job. So, let’s move on.  Be happy.
 
3.  Do what you have to do.  GS Rule #3: A true GS makes lemonade when life gives her lemons.  So, after a lay off you must move quickly.  Apply for unemployment, review your finances, consider cutting discretionary expenses, and, yes, manicures and pedicures are discretionary expenses.  If necessary, contact a credit counseling firm, such as the Association of Independent Consumer Credit Counseling Agencies, www.aiccca.org, to help negotiate payment plans.
 
4. Do not be afraid. GS Rule #5 (yes, this is GS rule #5 not 4): A true GS is not afraid of change, to the contrary, she embraces it.  Understand that sooner or later you will find a job. It is not a matter of “if”, but of “when.”  Do not hide yourself, ask everyone you know about possible job opportunities, apply for jobs, and use your online social networks to let people know that you are looking for a job.  In the meantime, try to earn extra income by advertising your services as a freelance or a virtual assistant. 
 
5. Enjoy your time off.  GS Rule #6: A true GS takes time off to do absolutely nothing.  Like Madonna says, always “take a Holiday, take some time to celebrate.”  Again, I know this might be hard if you are worrying about paying your bills and finding a job.  We understand the “involuntary” part of this situation.  However, you should not let the circumstances overshadow the fact that you have time off. Enjoy it.  Even if it is involuntary.  Wake up late, go to bed late, read a good book, watch TV, or use this time to do those things that you’ve wanted to do but never had the time to do.  Or, even better, relax and do nothing.  This is your time off.  Whatever you do, please enjoy it.  Trust me, you’ll be glad you did.
 
For a complete list of the “Sweet 16: The 16 Non-Negotiable Rules of a true Gossip Secretary”, click here.